Interested in being my slave?

Many women fantasize about being a BDSM sex slave in D/s and M/s. They have deep and dark desires. Most will just leave it at that, never sharing their pent-up desires with their partner. They end up discontented, alone in their fulfillment. Few dare to share their desires but are many times looked upon as insane, ridiculed, and sick! Get professional help! I am excluding males, as I am not interested in them. My blog is about female who is truly interested in becoming  a S&M slave in a consensual M/s relationship. It is a lifestyle choice; many more are living in this realm than you may think in privacy and behind closed doors. Which is exactly what I want. One on one. 

You want to be my slave?

The ease of this will depend on many things; these key points should be primary for you in order to succeed:

• you have to be genetically a female, single, no children
• you always wanted to be owned, dominated, and made feel less than equal in a relationship since you were a little girl or young adult. Submissive by nature and fulfill your true destiny.
• you are not seeking to be my girlfriend or wife, it is not about being loved, it is about your dedication and commitment. There is no divorce or going back to normal lifestyle.
• you understand it is not about my looks or age or finances but about my intellectual compatibility and the FREEDOM that I give you to live according to your deepest desires.

you must have the will to submit and accept giving up your Rights and decisions about yourself to the Dominant you chosen to unconditionally serve. This has to be your prime motivation and nothing else matters Read my rules as shown below.

1. I own you: your body, mind, and soul; they are mine to use any way I see fit.
2. I make the rules. The rules are subject to change if I want to change them.
3. I will punish you for breaking any rules, even those that you do not know about.
4. I will punish you daily just for the fun of it, as I enjoy being sadistic.
5. You only exist to please ME; your pleasure or interests mean nothing.
6. You understand that you are a worthless child who deserves rough treatment, no consideration of your feelings.
7. You will be nude, collared, and leashed in my presence 24/7 unless I tell you otherwise.
8. You will crawl on your hands and knees unless I tell you otherwise.
9. You will eat/drink from bowls on the floor what I give.
10. You will not speak unless given permission to do so.
11. You will handle tasks as assigned to you; in failing, you will be severely punished.
12. You will be caged when inactive and may sleep in one.
13. Your 3 holes will be used daily without any mercy, including as an urinal at my option.

Just whom I am looking for?

I want you to be intelligent, very feminine, and have a great smile. Age is not that relevant; it can be just about any age as long as you look good, nude. If you are shy, it will dissipate in time. You have known that this is your destiny and now you want this, which you always dreamed about. This is a real-life situation, and there is no tipping your toes in the water to test it out if you like or not.  The desire must be within your heart, mind, and soul. It has to drive you with passion.  Perhaps you will be very nervous at first, and this is normal,  or maybe not. Either way, I will be with you every step of the way.

Age? From over barely legal age but must be very mature and not living at home. This would certainly be more interesting or humiliating and have a shock value as I am significantly older. I could be your father or even grandfather you must like a much older dominant. The upper limit 50 perhaps…? Ideally someone in her late 30s to early 40s. I do not care about your age if you have the desire, and not afraid to commit yourself 100% all in. Not 80%, 90 % that is not enough, it has to be 100%!

I am of European heritage. You do not have to be Caucasian, but would prefer that.  However, you can be from the Middle East, exotic looking Asian or from Far East.  Must be fluent in English. Petite, 160 cm to 174 cm  tall, but slim to average weight to height proportional and less than 66 kg. No breast implants, as they could burst in some activities. B to D cup, as long as they are firm and shapely with perky nipples. Shaved everywhere. As I do not smoke, take drugs, consume much alcohol, and am healthy with no STD or STI, I expect you to be the same.

It is about your selflessness to give pleasure and serve regardless of your own pleasure sexual or otherwise, humiliation, degradation,   corporal punishment, pain or suffering. You do not have to be a masochist, who receives gratification from their own pain, but it would help. In fact, you do not have any kind of experience in slavery or any of the above, just the will to do it.  I will provide you training the way I want  you to serve me.  Every relationship, even in a Master/slave relationship, is unique. It helps to have a very open mind and dark desires, which may include sexual kink but it is not limited to just that. If you are just after sexual kink on your own terms, you are just a submissive and not what I want, no DD/lg, brats. Life is hard enough.

I want you, only as my slave, if you will obey me, accept my rules and follow my orders without a question, to be used as I see fit, without mercy or consideration towards your feelings.

Freedom to be what you always wanted to be

I am not naïve or  want you to be either. It doesn’t happen overnight. It has to be built on trust. Mutual trust based upon honest and serious communication.  Our communication has to be conducted via email, phone, Skype or Google chat or all of the aforementioned. If you are local, we can meet several times for a coffee/tea and talk in person. I am not interested in bar hopping or dinners. We will not go through process of  dating as in a conventional relationship.  I want our relationship to flourish within a very short time period. If you are not local or from a different country, that limits the first hand meeting. Regardless, I do not want our relationship to drag out for a long time. If this is the type of relationship you need and want,  time is of the essence.  Let’s get on with it, you settle what you have to do to make it happen in reality ASAP.  This will make it even more alluring and exciting as you agree in advance to be my fully committed slave before arriving. 

We both want a genuine person who will dedicate their time to learn about each other. In your case about “My Rules” which spell out my expectations of your servitude in Total Power Exchange (TPE). They are strict, and fair. Far from unreasonable in this kind of lifestyle. As mentioned, you would be nude, collared in my presence all the time.  Looking for someone who will be proud of wearing my tattoo or more as a sign of ownership, and pierced. Think about chains and leashes and exploring watersports, objectification, bondage, and speech restrictions. I will send you “My Rules” when I am convinced that you are serious about being my slave.

If you live in Canada, I am willing to give you a choice if you are a working woman, or have a profession, within a normal commute distance near my residence to keep it. Thus, your identity in vanilla life will not be compromised with what goes behind the closed doors once you are home. I want to keep privacy.

If you just want to leave it all behind, disappear from ex-relationships, friends or family,  it is also fine with me. I am a very private person. Just keep in mind you can not run away from any debts that you have, those are your own responsibility.

Not from Canada?

If you are from the USA, you will have to relocate with very little baggage. We will have to have serious discussions about this. The legal process can drag out for a long time.

While you can be from just about any European country or the Middle East, do realize immigrating to Canada is not easy, takes several years, unless you have a medical profession that is in short supply here and that would certainly speed up your entry, but than you would have to work in that field during the day while being my owned slave in our privacy after work.

Do not confuse my courtesy towards and perhaps my enthusiasm, interest in you as romantic, or signs of love or affection.

About me

You can read a lot about me and my interest here in detail: https://dominantmanforyou.com/about.html

To summarise I am a lot of things, but far from perfect, with good and bad traits and habits. I am also a retired person living on my pension, so if you are the gold digger type, I am not for you. The image above is not recent, but according to those who know me personally, I look exactly the same. (I modified to look bald, as now I shave my hair). Been called handsome, good looking but it is not about my vanity. I have a lot of free time on my hand, thus we would spend our time together 24/7 unless you worked. In this regard your slavery is not play scenarios all day, but includes many everyday tasks that is in any conventional vanilla type of relationship. The big difference is that of course you would nude, barefoot and collared. To spice up your everyday slavery, sometimes you will wear a corset, tight high stockings, garter belt in matching colour of white and black, high heels slippers or stilettos never any underwear, to entertain my visual needs. Will have plenty of time for my kinks sexual or otherwise. Do note all sexual activities will be bareback. But you will not have to worry about impregnation. As I have the so called dry ejaculation due to TURP a prostrate operation several years ago.

Apply, in detail about yourself and tell me why you would a good slave and a match for my forever girl. A recent photo is always appreciated.

Via email. Just click on this link.

Legality

There is a huge difference between wanting to be a consensual sex slave as a part of the BDSM lifestyle, and being trafficked by a pimp or kidnappers sold into sex slavery earning money for their so-called owners; being prostituted. Which is of course illegal.

Even consensual “slavery in name only” is very often looked upon by the Law as abusive or even illegal. One has to be very vigilant as to with whom one gets into a one-night stand or on a longer-term. When people get jealous, jaded, or being dumped for someone else they twist their consensual relations to paint the other as an abusive psychopath. Even if one has a contract signed by both what they are allowing to be done to each other, it will not hold up in Court. If the female is the one who is charging a male, it can completely ruin him, even if the allegations were false. There were many examples recently in Toronto, a well-known CBC personality, who was not guilty of abuse by the Court, but his career was ruined.