by Miss A, and I met through CS, she had a strong will just channelled it the wrong way. Miss A, advertised herself as 30 years old living in Georgia and as slave looking for ONE man. I replied and a day or two later we started to chat on Skype. Her named started with “A” , the cursed letter for me, see my ramblings about the females whose name start with an A here. I should just stopped right there! But I wanted to get over the cursed letter syndrome! Miss A, came across as very promising and very attractive candidate at first. Soon she confessed that she was not 30 but only 26 and perhaps a bit young for me. But we continued as nothing ventured nothing gained. It was very obvious from the few detail she provided that she had no practical experience, apart from looking at sites that feature Over The Knee spanking, aka OTK! This was her main fetish, but later in our Second Round, she confessed it was about total control, not OTK. Subsequently we actually progressed to our Third Round even after getting even with her after the Second Round.
First Round
It was evident she never been spanked in her adult life, only as a child, but that is what she wanted from her new Owner to show her, not to mess about and as a deterrent. Since that is what she read on sites about OTK, that the first task of her Owner was to do that to establish a fear in her. I reassured her that every relationship in M/s is different, and that is not necessarily the case. One does not punish upfront, well real Masters do not, only insecure ones who do not have mastery over themselves. Punishment or disciple should be applied when the slaves do not follow instruction or task and this applies in my case. There is a huge difference when pain through punishment is applied for the enjoyment of the sadistic Master. Sadist Master do enjoy giving out pain for the sake of pain but that is not due to falling a task or assignment. Giving out pain is used for intimidation and for those who are masochistic and enjoy pain. I enjoy being sadistic sometimes, especially with those who get off on it, as much as I do. However, I mentioned to Miss A, I only punish when there was a reason for it. She wanted to happen to show her what it is like and to see if she would cry or not. Again it showed that had no experience, only fantasized about this being a slave and about OTK. She asked me for the first month if she steps out of line to use this method only, until she can follow the expected routines. She was also concerned if I was strict enough as she had a strong will. I assured her I was strict enough and as she wasn’t my slave yet we can negotiate certain things.
I sent her images of my former slaves that showed their bottoms which were nice and red from spanking and cropping. I wanted to know more about her, but she was very frugal with her words and details. However, she did say that she was serious and not a time waster. I asked if she had a passport, at first she indicated not, but later on she confessed that yes she has one. I asked where she live? She said close to Chicago. Yet her Skype ID stated Lowell, Indiana, which was not that close, in fact in a different State. Chicago. Again she stretched the truth, just like she did on her profile. Not a good sign. She wondered if I would go down and pick her by car to bring her back to Canada, or we just stay at a local hotel and get to know each other. I mentioned unless this happens right away, as this was late in Fall, I am not willing to drive to Chicago (or wherever) do to the approaching cold winter weather. But we are just not there yet, I want to know know more about her and I would need ID to very I am not going to drive for several days on a wild goose chase, especially when the colder weather sets in. And it is quite expensive. She suggested she will be willing to fly up to Toronto as long as she could stay permanently with me as we both felt that would be the best. She can afford the ticket. I liked that better and we agreed on this too, when the time comes.
Then she asked me what is she going to do with car, other belongings, bank accounts and her clothing etc. I told her she will have to sell them and put the dollars into her account. She can transfer the money later on to Canada for her own use. I did mentioned to her that she would have to have a part time job, or we could start some type of business together, as I only lived on my pension. She was okay with this too. I sent her my detailed bio to help her to relate. She was very thankful. She wanted some more details and I sent her the info. According to her I was an awesome person, and stated to like me more and more to say things like she wants to be my “phenomenal companion, to spoil me.”
Second Round
I asked more info about her and some additional images. She sent the images pronto, but was silent about herself. Things started looked good. The following day she wanted to know what would be like when she arrived. I wrote up a scenario.
Her reaction was “I was so sweet, a real nice person” This was not figment of my imagination!
She fantasized about a young American Lady being owned by a mature Canadian, what a romantic story!
I sent some additional info. The next day she was very silent and towards late at night she indicted that I was to sweet and she had doubts about me disciplining her. That was a shock to me. I asked for clarification. She replied that she is a very strong person, and she always had everything her way, and she feels that if she fights back I will not discipline her as I was just too sweet of a person! I reassured her that I can, do not worry about it. She wanted me to break her will and ego and that is why she wanted to be spanked right away to put her in her place and if she came to me, she would have to owned from the second she stepped off the aircraft. This is what I wanted any how, so she just confirmed what I wanted. She then mentioned that she felt due to my age I could not do it. What did my age had anything to do with disciplining her? I knew then this was over, it was an excuse. She was just playing what if? – games. By remaining silent about herself, showed that she wasn’t serious, while she wanted info about myself. A Master’s role is to lead by example in building trust, I provided further info, yet she did not gave any further info about herself and just stayed unresponsive. I went from awesome to being blocked in two days. WTF! She even blocked me on CS so I could not contact her! Something was fishy about her, and certainly just a waste of time. She lied about her location, her age, and only God knows about what else? When a candidate is refusing to tell much about herself, and refuses to verify her identity, these are red flags. I did wished her well. I was a gentlemen towards her, and I am sure one day she will realize what she lost.
However, Miss A got under my skin with her attitude. I quickly created another ID and contacted her saying she was immature to write me off just like that. Instead of replying she blocked me. But I got even with her. This was Round Two. How I did this? Read mindfuck here.
Third Round
But there is more, as we come to Three Round. She actually contacted me in March 10 in 2024. She had the nerve to say, (see below) after she blocked me! However, I did not see it until April 10th.
I’ve replied, when I saw it in April. Miss A, ignored my response until 4th of May. When decide to write this…
I could have ignored her but decided to reply nicely. After all I am a gentleman, she is not used a sincere and serious persons. Then she wrote back that she is sorry for misunderstanding me and she changed! I wrote to her seriously, knowing that she was far from serious, just too see what will happens? I was correct, we corresponded for about a day. She asked the same questions about her spanking, and what would I want when it came to sex and her daily activities. I told her task is to satisfy her Master/Owner not just by sexual submission, but in all aspects of being together. She was in agreement with that. Miss A, brought up my age again saying that she was like a wild horse and needed taming. She has a strong will. I actually love horses and I used to ride one when I was in my mid twenties. I had no issues with horses, and I would tame her, no problems. Actually to become a slave in M/s one needs a strong will, and all she had to do was to channel her strong will in a better way!
Once again I’ve asked her to give real details about herself, which BTW I gave to her, to reassure that I was on the level. We corresponded over all for about 6 months with breaks in between. She sent me and a lot of images even without asking especially during the mindfuck scenario, and she relived a lot more info then, compared to our initial contact! She worked at Walmart as cashier, as she dropped out of college the first year for partying too much etc. She was actually looking to move with the “Jerry” who was actually me, as soon as she could to get away from her shitty job as she mentioned it.
She just ignored my request for details about herself and just went silent again. I wrote to her that she has to give details as I can not take her seriously without them. If she refuses fine. I am not here to play games with her. I wish her luck. She did not changed at all “Leopards do not drop their spots” Good bye Miss A! Three strikes and you are out just like in baseball. This time for good! When a candidate refuses to give verifiable details about herself and is just hiding behind the Skype ID or the anonymity of a made up name on an email or chat, it only means that are not serious or just are scammers.
